Aku mencari cinta yang hilang..kepada siapa harus ku adu kan masalahku...kini ku keseorangan..aku ditinggalkan begitu sahaja...mengapa ku harus diperlakukan begini...apa salahku...mungkin ku terlampau baik padamu hingga sanggup mu meninggalkan diriku...aku sengsara...tiada siapa paham rintihan hatiku...aku kini berserah..

Everyday, you say something.

You SMS, chat online, and talk to your friends and family.

What if you got rewarded for your say?

More than 15,000 young Malaysians and I have been active in this community and I thought you would want to check it out.

How does it work?
* Get paid when you take surveys, as it helps businesses and society serve you better.
* Meet like minds and influence others as you discuss your interests, current issues in the group discussions.
* Get more readers for your blog, as you broadcast interesting statistics of young Malaysians.
* Help young Malaysians with their questions. Or ask one of your own!

It's actually quite addictive and you can earn money too. The last I checked, members have earned a total of RM 38,522. You have to see it for yourself!

YAKIN DAN PERCAYA PADA DIRI SENDIRI -
Kebanyakan wanita menyukai lelaki yang percaya pada diri sendiri. Ciri ini mungkin sebagai bonus kepada lelaki. Untuk itu anda boleh mencuba dengan berdiri di depan cermin dan katakan "Saya adalah seorang yang terbaik" ataupun anda boleh mengeluarkan kalimah-kalimah lain yang membuatkan anda tampil dengan penuh yakin.

HUMOR -
Anda jangan terlalu bersikap serius. Lelaki yang sentiasa bersikap serius ini membosankan. Luangkan masa dengan berkumpul dan berseronok di tepi pantai bersama kawan-kawan.

EGO -
Wanita tidak suka lelaki yang ego. Oleh yang demikian, anda jangan merasa cemburu dengan kawan-kawan lelaki yang mempunyai ramai teman wanita yang cantik. Cuba lihat dalam diri anda yang menyebabkan anda tidak disukai. Sebenarnya anda juga boleh mempunyai ramai teman di kalangan wanita sekiranya anda pandai menghormati mereka. Selain daripada itu wanita juga sukakan lelaki yang berpengalaman.

BERJAYA -
Wanita tidak suka dengan lelaki yang lemah. Wanita akan gembira apabila temannya seorang yang mempunyai identiti diri dan berjaya. Anda tidak semestinya kaya, cukuplah anda seorang yang berkarisma dan kaya dengan pengetahuan dan pengalaman.

BIJAK -
Sesetengah wanita mengatakan lelaki yang pandai adalah seorang yang seksi. Ini memang betul. Anda boleh memakai cermin mata mengikut peredaran zaman agar kelihatan bijak.

ROMANTIK -
Apabila berdua-duaan, ucaplah dengan kata-kata yang indah seperti "Aku begitu menyintaimu" sambil menatap wajahnya, matanya dan memegang tangannya.

Kesimpulannya, untuk mencari leiaki yang sesuai dijadikan teman hidup sebaik-baiknya biarlah yang beriman dan ada pegangan agama agar dapat menjadi pelindung kepada keluarganya kelak.

"What do women want?" many men have wondered. Who knows. But figuring out what women want in men is crucial to becoming effective not only in dealing with women, but developing the kind of Dating Life you really want.

So what do women want from men? What traits do they look for? And why -- what's the reason behind it?

There are three specific traits. And naturally there are also three corresponding reasons why women want these traits in men.

Let's take some time to explore them in detail...

Ultimately, what women want in men is to have their needs and desires fulfilled. To understand what traits women look for in men, we have to understand just what those needs and desires are...

... and then we can make the connections to these character traits, and how you can develop them in yourself.

Need #1: Security. Women want to feel safe. In today's civilized world however, safety isn't really that big of an issue anymore.

Need #2: Pleasure. Women want to feel pure sensual stimulation. What do men talk about? Business, sports, and women. But what do women talk about? Sex, men, sex, relationships, and sex -- did I mention sex?

Need #3: Adventure. Women want to feel excitement and anticipation. They have a strong desire to trust in someone who will lead them into emotional charged experiences that they wouldn't have the courage to go alone.

Now, what you'll notice is that what women want in men are traits that allow her to experience the condition that meet her needs and desires...

... traits that give her these FEELINGS!

Examining your breasts is an important way to find a breast cancer early, when it's most likely to be cured. Not every cancer can be found this way, but it is a critical step you can and should take for yourself. No woman wants to do a breast self-exam (or "BSE"), and for many the experience is frustrating—you may feel things but not know what they mean. However, the more you examine your breasts, the more you will learn about them and the easier it will become for you to tell if something unusual has occurred. BSE is an essential part of taking care of yourself and reducing your risk of breast cancer.

Studies show that regular breast self-exams, combined with an annual exam by a doctor, improves the chances of detecting cancer early.

Try to get in the habit of doing a breast self-examination once a month to familiarize yourself with how your breasts normally look and feel. Examine yourself several days after your period ends, when your breasts are least likely to be swollen and tender. If you are no longer having periods, choose a day that's easy to remember, such as the first or last day of the month.

Don't panic if you think you feel a lump. Most women have some lumps or lumpy areas in their breasts all the time. Eight out of ten breast lumps that are removed are benign, non-cancerous.

Breasts tend to have different "neighborhoods." The upper, outer area—near your armpit—tends to have the most prominent lumps and bumps. The lower half of your breast can feel like a sandy or pebbly beach. The area under the nipple can feel like a collection of large grains. Another part might feel like a lumpy bowl of oatmeal.

What's important is that you get to know the look and feel of YOUR breasts' various neighborhoods. Does something stand out as different from the rest (like a rock on a sandy beach)? Has anything changed? Bring to the attention of your doctor any changes in your breasts that:

• last over a full month's cycle, OR
• seem to get worse or more obvious over time

Knowing how your breasts usually look and feel may also help you avoid needless biopsies—a procedure in which the doctor takes a small sample of breast tissue and examines it under a microscope.

A journal can help

Some women find it helpful to keep a record of their breast self-exam on paper. This can be like a small map of your breasts, with notes about where you feel lumps or irregularities. Especially in the beginning, this may help you remember, from month to month, what is "normal" for your breasts. It is not unusual for lumps to appear at certain times of the month, but then disappear, as your body changes with the menstrual cycle. Only changes that last beyond one full cycle, or seem to get bigger or more prominent in some way, need your doctor's attention.

While beauty is almost as subjective as love, it's something that you can explore and discover in yourself over time। Find beauty in a classy presentation and a personal expression of your tastefulness.

Seek to express your beauty. How do you define beauty? As you go through your day, try to make note of things and people that strike you as beautiful. If you can, write them down. Try to understand what makes them beautiful to you। They may not be beautiful to others, but that's why beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Recognize the beauty in yourself. Look in the mirror and search for beauty. By now, you've probably noticed that the most beautiful things in life are often subtle and hidden. The same goes for the beauty you hold. Maybe you have smooth, well-proportioned hands, or a flawless forehead, or perfectly-shaped shoulders. Whatever it is, it's yours--revel in it.

Enhance your physical beauty. Looking beautiful is all about emphasizing those features in you that are already beautiful। There are millions of ways to do this, as there are millions of potentially beautiful features on a single body. The important thing is to experiment with accentuating that beauty until you can look at your reflection and feel like you've given your beauty the representation it deserves.

Develop your inner beauty. There are plenty of so-called beautiful people out there who lie, cheat, steal, and even kill. Their beauty never lasts, but yours can. By finding yourself and building your character through integrity, you can be beautiful both on the inside and on the outside। Better yet, your inner beauty will always emanate and never fade, wrinkle, or turn gray.

Create beauty outside of yourself. Now that you see beauty and you are beautiful (as you always have been, but now know it), it's time to make beauty. Art is a very popular emulation of beauty, but it's possible to inject beauty into everything you do (your work, how you interact with people, and the way you decorate your room, for example). This is an extremely satisfying pursuit that will not only make the world a more beautiful place, but it will also bring your quest for beauty full circle.

1. Open a savings account. Having a savings account is one of the many ways where you can set your money up to work for you. Your initial deposit of money grows whether or not you make additional deposits by interest. Learn the different types of accounts, including accounts like IRAs.
2. Buy stocks. If you are gung-ho for individual stocks, you should buy stocks of the companies whose products and services you use or purchase. One of the best ways to invest in individual stocks is through an investment club; you may want to consider forming one with your friends.
3. Buy mutual funds. Mutual funds are really an investment of other investments. When you own a mutual fund, you actually own the securities (stocks, bonds, cash) within the mutual. With mutual funds, you are pooling your money with other investors and diversifying your investment.
4. Audition for game shows. Game shows earn their money by the audience, not the contestants.
5. Find a "system" that has been proven to make people become millionaires. The top five producers of millionaires today are: technology - internet marketing, direct sales, home-based business, product distribution, and investments (stocks, bonds, real estate investment / development).
6. Find a mentor who has walked the walk and seek advice. Surround yourself with already-made millionaires.
7. Join the military. This can be a great way to make money if you are willing to spend the time and effort. Four years of enlisted duty, then four years of going to a Military Academy (College (High-Quality (Free))), and then ten years of officer duty will get you about $720,000. Every year you work for the military after that will get you around $55,000 a year with great benefits. If you are afraid of battle, join the Navy or the Airforce, as you are extremely unlikely to be involved in a major battle.

Spend more time around people. If you want to make friends, you first need to put yourself out there somehow. Friends don't come knocking on your door while you sit at home watching TV. If the people you're already around (e.g. at work or school) aren't friend material for whatever reasons, it's not the end of the world.

* Join a club with people who have common interests. You don't necessarily have to have a lot of common interests with people in order to make friends with them. In fact, some of the most rewarding friendships are between two people who don't have much in common at all, but if you have something in common with people, it can make it a lot easier to start a conversation and plan activities together.

* Join a sports team. A common misconception about this is that you have to be really good at playing a particular sport in order to make friends with others on the team, but not all teams are so competitive. As long as you enjoy the sport and support your teammates, joining a local team with a laid-back attitude could be a great way to make new friends.

* Volunteer. Volunteering is a great way for people of all ages to meet others. By working together you build bonds with people, and you might meet others who have a passion for changing things the way you do—a common cause.

* Get online. In general, the Internet is a great place to make friends, but... it's also easy to invest a lot of time online with someone you think is a friend, and then you never meet them because of time and distance. Expect to have to sift through a lot of people online before you find the one or two great friends, the kind who will be there for you when you really need them. The Internet can also help you find other people around the world who share your interests even if you live in an isolated place. And even though the internet is a great place in general you still have to be cautious because not every person you meet online are who they say they are.Try Myspace or Facebook which are the most known sites for "new meetings" and check yourself out.With what kind of people can you communicate ? That's important.